Kisah Norma, Talib dan Rafiq

Aku copy dari blog Puan Munirah.

Menitik air mata.

Dalam bahagia kita, ada yang sengsara
Dalam kita sengsara, rupa-rupanya masih ada yang lebih sengsara

Siapa Norma, Talib dan Rafiq?

Norma dan Talib - Wedding Day

Norma and Talib - Kasih Sayang si suami

Norma at home

Rafiq, yang masih dahagakan kasih sayang seorang ibu

Ini pun aku copy dari blog tuan punya...

Hows Norma

Thanks all sebab sangat rajin bertanya kan khabar pasal Norma

Those who are still new to this blog here's the summary

Norma is my biras
Age 26 , suffer brain cancer stage 4
Married last year Mac 2010 , lahirkan rafiq bulan Jan 2011
Start sakit masa pregnant 7 bulan .
As soon bersalin terus dia tak boley bangun
The cancerous tumor is 7 cm kat saraf tunjang dia
5 X operation . 2 mon after operation ...tumor tew membesar balik
dah 15X radioterapi tapi tak memberi kesan
she is to weak for kimo
hospital dah surrender
now dia berada di rumah nya at Balakong

Ini pulak rentetan kisah Norma...

1 Mac 2011 Norma di sahkan ada brain tumor
2 Mac 2011 Doc pasang shan di kepala Norma
6 Mac 2011 Talib n Norma's 1st anniversarry
8 Mac 2011 1st operation remove kan tumor
operation 10 hour++
14 Mac 2011 Norma HKL day 14
20 Mac 2011 Norma ICU day 5 HKL day 20
22 Mac 2011 Norma HKL day 22
26 Mac 2011 Norma HKL day 25
27 Mac 2011 Norma HKL day 27
28 Mac 2011 Norma HKL day 28
1 April 2011 Norma HKL day 32
3 April 2011 Norma HKL day 34
5 April 2011 Norma HKL Day 36
7 April 2011 Urgent - Norma makin lemah
8 April 2011 Norma HKL day 39
11 April 2011 - Norma HDW , HKL day 42
sumbangan utk Rafiq
15 April 2011 Norma HKL day 46
18 April Norma HKL day 49

tgh risau kan pasal Norma ...my Hubby plak kena operate sebab colon cancer
25 April 2011 Sutan kena operate
kisah pembedahan pak sutan 24 April - 30 April 2011

masa tew jugaks dapat tahu cancer Norma stage 4
Norma stage 4

5 May 2011 Norma operate kali ke 5 HKL day 66
10 May 2011 Norma HKL day 71
12 May 2011 Norma HKL day 73
22 May 2011 Norma HKL day 83
Abdul Rafiq is 4 Months
1 June 2011 - Norma di Onkologi , HKL day 96
5 June 2011 - Norma pulang ke Rumah
15 June 2011 - Emergency
17 June 2011 - This entry

Aku sangat sebak...



Ya Allah, tak dapat aku gambarkan kesedihan bila baca blog Puan Munirah aka Kak Moon ni.
Aku tak kenal siapa dia. Tapi persaudaraan sesama Islam membuatkan aku terpanggil untuk hebahkan di sini.
Apa yang dapat kita bantu, kita bantu.
Kalau tak dapat dari segi material, cukuplah doa yang kita sampaikan dari kejauhan.

Brain Tumor : Ikhtiar dan Doa mengiringimu Byzah

Last week aku jumpa Byzah lagi. Itupun sebab Amran nak pulangkan hard disk aku tu. Kot tak, susah jugak nak jumpa si Byzah ni. Diorang on the way back after rawatan di Darul Ruqyah, Batu Caves.

Godek-godek cerita Byzah, sekarang ni turun naik semua pusat rawatan yang ada dalam usaha nak pulihkan dia. Since rawatan moden dia dah buat, doctor pun ada suggest untuk dia cuba kaedah rawatan alternative. Cyberknife pun dah buat, Alhamdulillah 1^st surgery berjalan lancar. Tapi kuasa Allah tu tak dapat ditanding sebab Dia akan sentiasa menguji kita. According to her, dia hanya boleh ikhtiar dan doa jelah at this stage. Sebab tanda-tanda pemulihan tu belum ada, dan dia masih at risk.

So kawan-kawan yang aku sayang, bukan nak menakut-nakutkan sesiapa…tetapi, kalau rasa ada abnormality pada diri ataupun penyakit yang sentiasa berulang-ulang, janganlah ambil mudah. Pergilah berjumpa dengan yang pakar supaya tak terpempan di kemudian hari.

Sedikit informasi yang aku korek dari internet tentang siapa yang berisiko mendapat brain tumor untuk rujukan semua.

What causes and who is at risk for brain tumors?

No one knows the exact causes of brain tumors. Doctors can seldom explain why one person develops a brain tumor and another does not. However, it is clear that brain tumors are not contagious. No one can "catch" the disease from another person.

Research has shown that people with certain risk factors are more likely than others to develop a brain tumor. A risk factor is anything that increases a person's chance of developing a disease.

The following risk factors are associated with an increased chance of developing a primary brain tumor:

• Being male - In general, brain tumors are more common in males than females. However, meningiomas are more common in females.
• Race - Brain tumors occur more often among white people than among people of other races.
• Age - Most brain tumors are detected in people who are 70 years old or older. However, brain tumors are the second most common cancer in children. (Leukemia is the most common childhood cancer.) Brain tumors are more common in children younger than 8 years old than in older children.
• Family history - People with family members who have gliomas may be more likely to develop this disease.
• Being exposed to radiation or certain chemicals at work:
   

   Radiation - Workers in the nuclear industry have an increased risk of developing a brain tumor.

   Formaldehyde - Pathologists and embalmers who work with formaldehyde have an increased risk of developing brain cancer. Scientists have not found an increased risk of brain cancer among other types of workers exposed to formaldehyde.

   Vinyl chloride - Workers who make plastics may be exposed to vinyl chloride. This chemical may increase the risk of brain tumors.

   Acrylonitrile - People who make textiles and plastics may be exposed to acrylonitrile. This exposure may increase the risk of brain cancer.

Scientists are investigating whether cell phones may cause brain tumors. Studies thus far have not found an increased risk of brain tumors among people who use cell phones.

Scientists also continue to study whether head injuries are a risk factor for brain tumors. So far, these studies have not found an increased risk among people who have had head injuries.

Most people who have known risk factors do not get brain cancer. On the other hand, many who do get the disease have none of these risk factors. People who think they may be at risk should discuss this concern with their doctor. The doctor may be able to suggest ways to reduce the risk and can plan an appropriate schedule for checkups.

Kawanku Disahkan Menghidap Tumor Otak :(

Semalam plan nak gi jenguk Baizah kat Hospital Pantai Bangsar tapi dah balik lambat, serba salah plak nak singgah sana. As of today, dia dah discharge and now tunggu next appointment dengan Eye Specialist.

Aku terkesima bila dapat tahu keadaan Baizah.

Sepanjang perjalanan balik ke rumah semalam, aku tak henti-henti berfikir tentang musibah yang menimpa keluarga mereka. Alhamdulillah, mereka tak banyak diduga selama ni. InsyaAllah kehidupan mereka sangat senang, kedua-dua naik pangkat lepas kahwin. Orang kata rezeki mencurah-curah selepas kahwin.Tapi sekali dugaan menimpa, alangkah beratnya terasa...

Bukan berpura-pura. tapi air mata aku menitis bila dapat tahu keadaan Byzah. Sama-sama kita berdoa, agar Byzah cepat sembuh, agar ada senyum di wajahnya...

Apa Perasaan Anda Apabila Disahkan Menghidap Tumor Otak?

Sahabat baik aku, baru saja update status di wall FB mengatakan isteri tercinta disahkan menghidap tumor otak. Isterinya juga adalah seorang yang aku kenal dan agak baik dengan aku. Kawan aku baru kahwin dalam 2 tahun lepas, anak pun baru sorang, umur 1 tahun dan nama anak pun sama dengan anak aku.

Respon aku? Of course sangat terkejut...

Aku telefon En Suami, nak ajak dia pergi lawat kat Hospital Pantai Bangsar malam ini.

Mudah-mudahan masih boleh dirawat. Sebab mengikut kata kawan aku tadi, nak operate will be too risky. Now seeking for 2nd opinion. Aku doakan Byzah cepat sembuh, dan semoga dia tenang selalu. Amin.

Agak-agak korang, kalau korang dalam situasi macam tu, apa tindakan korang ye?